To the Editor
Re: The Non-Viral Yellow Fever
Most of my experiences of being approached in a flirtatious manner, as an East Asian woman, have been from East Asian men. The setting is commonly a college party in the Boston area. These men seem to single me out as the only Asian woman in the room and thus make one of several assumptions: They often assume that I would be the most likely to have something in common with them, such as the struggle of being a racial minority or a shared cultural history. They think that because I appear Asian I have traits that they find desirable in a partner. I have to say, as someone who grew up in a white household in white suburbia, this automatic attention is off-putting, largely because it is so presumptuous. By distilling my experience and identity down to just my race, which they read in one look, these Asian men are just as insulting as white men who have yellow fever. The way I understand yellow fever, and have experienced it, is when someone dates or flirts with exclusively East Asian women despite exposure to women of a variety of races and ethnicities. The complexity of making assumptions about the people within your own race can be just as problematic and detrimental. The stereotypical views about Asian women are just as pervasive in Western culture as they are outside of it. Even if we are limiting the scope of yellow fever to Western culture, I have a hard time believing that only white men are complicit in perpetuating the stereotypes portrayed by the media and institutionalized throughout history.
Sincerely,
Virginia White