by kbender2 | Apr 3, 2025 | Thoughtful Negotiation
When individuals and groups enter into negotiations, many people often have a mindset of “mine,” which is a “position-based” approach. It’s a “zero sum” framework, meaning the pizza pie is only so big. Let’s say you have 2 slices and I have 6; if I give you one...
by kbender2 | Mar 27, 2025 | Supporting One Another
We are living in an environment unlike one that we have seen since, perhaps, the McCarthy era. Students, faculty and staff alike are scared that they, or their colleagues/classmates, will be arrested, detained, or deported. Many are concerned that they, or their...
by kbender2 | Mar 14, 2025 | Bravery and Courage
Many people on campus are feeling overwhelmed and helpless with the myriad of changes that are occurring in our country and world. We need, somehow, to find the strength to pull out of our fear and replace it with courage and bravery. In looking for guidance in how...
by kbender2 | Feb 5, 2025 | Uncategorized
I often hear from visitors to the Ombuds Office that they are stressed. These visitors include staff, faculty and students and the causes of short-term stress seem to be coming from three main sources: social media/news, relationship issues, and feeling overwhelmed...
by kbender2 | Jan 24, 2025 | Uncategorized
I recently spent a little time in India and was touched by the warmth and wisdom of the locals with whom I spoke. Their commitment to family and to high ideals was paramount. Many of them also believe in karma and live their lives accordingly. Wanting to learn more...